The marital infidelity often becomes the cause of the family conflicts and divorces. Signs of treason can meet even in the most safe marriages. To calculate deception from the spouse, it is necessary to pay attention to violations of habitual tenor of life in family.
Emotional remoteness
One of the main signs of treason – decrease in emotional attachment of the spouse. It can be shown in the form of frequent depressions, egocentric behavior, ignoring of interests of the partner indifferent the relation to family problems, etc. If you notice similar signs in behavior of your spouse, you need to think of your relations.
Discontent and rage
Frequent verbal abuses, intolerance to minor problems, constant aggression, discontent and charges of something are also signs of treason. Such behavior always looks inexplicable. Your partner constantly complains of trivial things. You can feel that he is unhappy, but at the same time leaves from answers to your questions.
You can feel that any your actions do not lead to improvement of a situation.
Control
Also constant charges can be sign of treason from the partner that you deprive of it freedom of action that you try to control it. The partner changing to the second half can feel that he is in a trap of the family relations. He will complain of pressure and control of you even if you speak about insignificant things.
"Intense" work
Pay attention to changes in the schedule of work of your partner. What he is engaged in after work how often he goes to long working trips whether he is engaged in overtime work and how often he does it. All these signs have to set you thinking on his fidelity at least.
Inadequate reaction to your disease
One of the brightest signs of treason is the indifferent relation to your disease. For example, you were hospitalized, it is possible, in a serious condition, but the partner does not visit you and even continues to lead a former life, without changing the schedule of the day in any way. Such behavior speaks about total absence of attachment and indifference.
Excess expenditure
If you notice that your partner began to spend more for the appearance (often buys new clothes, suddenly began to keep the figure, etc.), it is sign to think. You can also notice that he began to visit gym or the fitness centers. Such behavior in itself is not abnormal, but only when it does not disappear and does not become surprise for you.
New hobbies
Interest, unexpected for you, in new things and hobbies from the spouse (sport, a hobby, etc.), lack of interest in household chores in combination with unreasonable interest in affairs foreign, unusual eagerness to life to not houses, also have to guard you.
You can also hear charges in the address that you allegedly prevent it to do favorite things.
Defensive position
One more bright sign of treason – a habit on any your questions to take a defensive position. You can speak about absolutely simple and even daily things, but the spouse will perceive your questions as attempt to accuse him of incorrectness.
Relations with an opposite sex
Pay attention as your spouse behaves with an opposite sex. Perhaps, you notice unusually warm greetings with embraces and kisses with the subsequent attempt to justify oneself for the of behavior in response to your questions. Or, for example, you often hear from the spouse a phrase "We are just friends and nothing more" though you never at the same time asked him about the nature of its relations with this friend.
Indicative need for private life
Pay attention to emergence in your spouse of the new, personal bank account, e-mail hidden from you and also, for example, the frequent correspondence on the Internet continuing till the dead of night. Here it is possible to refer concealment of extracts from you on credit cards and constant overwrite of messages from phone. All this can be sign of treason.