Of course, offensively when darling does not hear you or does not want to hear. But it is not an occasion to consider that the man does not love you. Just he thinks and perceives everything differently, than you. Most of men are concentrated on the facts and the solution of specific objectives. Women are more emotional and impatient. That your requests and questions reached the addressee quicker, try to submit information accurately, shortly and clearly.
You do not hurry with a talk
You constantly speak with the husband by fits: in the car, on the way to shop, at breakfast before work? This time is not enough that you were heard and understood by the husband as you expect it.
If you planned a serious conversation, wait for a right moment. In the situation disposing to a conversation you will tell the spouse of what concerns you in life now or strains in the family relations. Further, ask council or suggest to find a solution together. It is important to finish a conversation on a positive note: remember the joyful moments, talk about plans for a holiday and holidays.
Interest the husband
Do you want your husband to treat your personal or joint records, problems, desires with big understanding? Be not straightforward in the expectations. For example, instead of sharp "I want to hear your opinion now!" mention the point of view of other man in a conversation: "And here my brother claims that..." And you will see, the spouse suddenly will be what to tell on this problem. And then softly throw a switch on what interests you.
Have endurance
The husband had an unlucky day, and you immediately want to tell everything to it? Do you wait for participation, and he eats the dinner and is silent? You do not hurry to snatch on blessed with inquiries and problems — to it, unlike you, time is necessary to recover the breath and switch to a house situation. Give it this chance, and later time, unostentatiously return to the topic interesting you or ask an urgent problem. Now you for certain will be heard by the husband.
Avoid hints
Statements like "The long-awaited movie is released tomorrow..." or "And why you never call me when you go from work?" it is better to avoid. They, most likely, as they say, in one ear will fly will take off for another. Tell the husband directly that very much you want to go with him to cinema to a certain movie tomorrow, ask to call you when it goes home that you managed to make a dinner. The more particularly you will formulate the thoughts and desires, the less there will be a misunderstanding. And that the spouse did not perceive your calls and questions as control and jealousy, tell that just you miss and you want to spend with him more time.