In life of any person there are romantic relations sooner or later. And not always this period comes to an end with "happy end". People leave, often leaving at the same time mental anguish. How to forget darling? Whether it is possible if you see him every day?
The love is fine feeling, it is a basis of bases. Without it life just does not make sense. Statistically most of people before they found the second half and started a strong reliable family, repeatedly fell in love with someone else. Often the relations come to an end with a gap at the initiative of one of partners. There is also "unrequited love" when sublime feelings prevailed only over one person, and the second does not test reciprocity.
Whether it is possible to forget the one whom you love?
The answer is obvious – no, it simply is not peculiar to human nature. To forget the person who somehow affected your life, caused emotions, the feeling, etc., most likely, will not turn out. Of course, if it is really strong feelings, but not fleeting sympathy. Also there is an opinion that the true love - is eternal, and it is impossible to stop loving the person completely, but it is possible to reduce and over time completely to remove that mental anguish which torments you now.
How to stop loving the person if often you see him
For this purpose try to listen to the following recommendations:
1. Put the end to this story. Life did not end, and you need to move further, kind of painfully now was. Cry, shout, splash out everything that collected at you inside. But do not turn it into a daily ritual, try to make it for once. You remember – on the way to true happiness many barriers. Simply it is not your person, try to forgive him if is for as to release. Until you release the person, be discharged of him, you will not be able to go normally further.
2. Do not become despondent also a depression. Take care of the own life – self-development the best way to be forgotten and distract. It is possible to go to the gym, to master a new profession, to start new acquaintances. Especially, when on your way "your" person will meet, it is better to look not the sad, thrown being, and the beautiful, well-groomed and fairly clever girl (guy).
3. Try to limit communication with an object of your sympathies. You do not call, do not write, do not look for meetings and if they are inevitable – behave detached. Do not allocate this person. It for you – the past. If it is impossible – return to Paragraph 1.
Also you remember – let now you be heart-broken and worse nothing can already be, but there will pass years, and you will smile, remembering this situation. Everything that occurs now - it is experience. The main thing never to lose self-respect. Then people, worthy you and your love will reach for you.