Many people suffer from the fact that their relatives behave selfishly and do not put in anything their interests. However those who are egoists too quite often feel discomfort and want to escape from a vicious circle. Let's consider how to get rid of egoism. We can divide conditionally this phenomenon into several different types which allow to characterize a problem of different people more specifically and to understand how to struggle with egoism.
- Egoism in the relations. If one of partners categorically does not make concessions, lives as wants, without paying attention to urgent need of search of a compromise, the second half has only two options: either to reconcile and remain, or to leave, having broken up all communications with the egoist. Both of these exits are very deplorable. To solve a problem, it is necessary to document the rights and duties of everyone and to monitor their execution.
- Female egoism. Quite often women are egoists, considering that only their desires are noteworthy. Such women are inclined to ignore requirements and desires of other people, seeking to impose all the interests. It conducts to problems both in collective, and in the personal relations. In this case reading the psychological literature helping to understand relatives can help.
- Male egoism. Quite often men are sure that only they can answer questions and make decisions. Male egoists are a bad basis both for family, and for the company. Men are quite often helped by sport – both command, and single combats.
- Parental egoism. You for certain saw more than once kind mummies who under the guise of diseases and fatigue manipulate the grown-up children, without giving them the chance to build own nest and forcing to turn only around parents. It, perhaps, one of the most cruel manifestations of egoism. It is not so difficult to refuse it – it is only necessary to admit to himself own egoism and to find for itself more worthy occupation.
If you recognized the problem - it is already a half of the decision. It is important to control itself, and you will soon notice that life changes for the better.