The frequent phenomenon in life of modern school students is hazing. Especially it often occurs among school students of elementary grades from whom take away handles, food and pocket money. And it is done not by seniors, but pupils of initial classes. If you have a suspicion that your child fell a victim of hazing, then take following advice for the solution of this problem.
Instruction
1. To exclude similar situations from life of the son and always to be aware of what happens to him accustom to tell him about all his cases, experiences and of everything that happens to it at school. Do not feel sorry for time to attentively listen to it, in every possible way encourage to a conversation, vividly be interested, lead. In turn, tell it about what happens at you at work. If the son gets used to tell every day, how was your day, you will be able to react to any non-staff situation in time.
2. For prevention of cases of hazing do not give to the child of spare pocket cash, buy the most ordinary handles and pencils, do not allow to take modern electronic toys in school. Put a minimum of money on phone, the child can quite send you "indicator", and you call back to it. Explain to the son that it is impossible to be praised by money, food, electronic toys, phone not to give reasons for envy and stickings of the senior children.
3. Sometimes local "authorities" behave at school quite decently, and are engaged in "racket" after lessons in the schoolyard. In this case it is desirable to accustom the son not to go whenever possible alone, and to keep together with friends. Explain that if stuck to someone, the rest should not run up in different directions, and at once to run to adults and to call to the aid.
4. If the little son comes from school upset, in the rumpled or torn clothes, with grazes and bruises, convince him that the frank story about the event is not an indicator of cowardice. Tenderly, but persistently achieve that he told the names of offenders
5. You can go to his teacher and if it is necessary, then to the head teacher or the director to explain a situation and to demand to take measures. In case the school administration does not take any measures, act. Ask the husband, the brother, any familiar man after lessons and out of school walls to explain to "authorities" that if they do not stop slighting kids, parents will knows of their actions and police. Hooligans do not try to talk some sense. At this age of the woman at them in general too weak authority, especially someone's there mothers have. And here man-to-man talk can yield results.
6. If business reached fights, be not afraid to address to department of work with minors in police station of your area, only surely inform of it administration of school.