In your family the relations finally went wrong, you have no mutual feeling of love and respect any more. It seems to you that the only constructive exit from the situation – parting.
Instruction
1. Be ready that the break with the person with which you long time were constantly together will be difficult, even in case you are connected only by a habit.
2. If an initiator of a gap are you, once again think whether really you want to stop completely the relations with this man, but not to change already existing problem.
3. Talk to the husband frankly and explain him the reason of the decision. You should not accuse him of everything, to make scandal, or to begin to feel sorry for him. Try to be the most judicious and quiet.
4. If the thought of a divorce proceeds from the husband, accept a situation with advantage and begin to live further. Leave quickly and resolutely. If you live in your apartment, give to the husband the concrete term (2 weeks, month) on search of new housing. If you moved to the husband, collect suitcases and you leave. To delay it, means to force both him, and itself to suffer even stronger.
5. If to you it is very heavy, let's themselves term have a good cry and regret itself, switch off phone, send children to the grandmother, invite the faithful companion or remain one and, having once again remembered all most remarkable and most disgusting acts of the ex-husband, emotionally tear with the past.