The problem of own housing facing young spouses forces them to agree to accommodation with parents. At the same time both couples realize possible problems.
Instruction
1. At the beginning of your cohabitation it is better to agree among themselves about rules. It can concern common areas, cleaning, cooking, behavior in general. Do not forget that you are in the territory of parents at whom a certain vital rhythm already settled. For them as aged people, will hard make changes to the way. Having agreed in an amicable way, try not to violate the adopted rules. It you will help to avoid many problems.
2. It will be also hard for your second half to get on with your parents. In fact, they are foreign people for your spouse. How you will put yourself, their relations will depend. It is not necessary to be "mother's darling" or "the mother's daughter" who do everything that will be told by parents. After all, you already have the family, and you are responsible for the made decisions.
3. In case ofIn case of a disputable situation, softly, but firmly explain to parents the position, adduce arguments. Parents will understand that you can solve the arisen problem and also you are approved in the opinion of your spouse.
4. It is also necessary to find out all questions concerning a rent (payment for utilities) at once. Better to pay the part. So you will prove the independence once again and will be able to avoid in the future claims by parents.
5. Whenever possible you seek to get (to remove) a separate living space. Not each spouse will be able to live with foreign parents long time. Over time the arisen problems can have an adverse effect on your relationship.