There is such opinion that the first impression about the person is deceptive. For certain and you at acquaintance to new people were disappointed in them after a while, or on the contrary were surprised as far as they are lovely and friendly. To make a good impression on the interlocutor it is necessary to put considerable ability and a step.
Instruction
1. Most important, necessary it is natural to behave, but it is not too unchained not to confuse the person. But also not to be intense at a conversation. Try to communicate with people simply, without excess "pomposity". Be not too serious, it will be heavy to people to find to you approach for communication.
2. You should not wait when someone the first pays attention to you, you can become the initiator of dialogue. At communication with the person show interest in its affairs, state the point of view, you do not stint compliments.
3. If you want to make friends with the colleague who is negatively ready in your party, try to emphasize his achievements in work. Or assess its appearance positively. But, trying to please, do not forget that it is necessary to give compliments so that the person apprehended them from the right point of view. Also did not apprehend as mockeries and sneers.
4. During the conversation attentively listen to the person. Try to find something the general among themselves and the interlocutor, similar interests in something, identical attachments. All this has to unite you as people usually easily communicate with those people who are similar to them. It can be both external similarity, and similarity in views of the world surrounding us.
5. If at you something is not got on in life or there was some problem, do not try to reflect negative emotions in the interlocutor, you can just share with him a problem, and the person himself will sympathize with you at a difficult moment. And other people can have problems which it is possible to guess at first sight on the person. You, in turn, do not try to ask busily, it is necessary to support and offer the help tactfully. Remember that each person has strong and weaknesses to make a good impression, it is necessary to use the first and not to show the second.