Almost in each relations between the man and the woman there comes the moment when she makes the decision to acquaint him with mother and the father. It is quite disturbing period for the man, and like "Be not afraid of a phrase, we already talked to mother about you" can aggravate fear of the young man only.
In what time it is better to organize acquaintance?
It is very important to catch the suitable period in time. You should not pull prior to a wedding or pregnancy and to present parents with a fait accompli. It will be obvious disrespect and will give the chance to the girl's mother further "to saw" it: "I said to you that it not couple".
The ideal moment for acquaintance the 3rd month of the relations is considered approximately. It lets parents know that time you meet quite long time, will hardly leave soon.
Couple of words about clothes
In this question it is also important to sustain balance. You should not put on a suit and a tie – you are going to do not the offer, and only to get acquainted. But in a sports suit it is impossible to come too. Here it is worth specifying something. It is impossible to come to a meeting at all in shorts what heat would not stand. And trousers or jeans is a personal choice of everyone. It is necessary to follow three rules. Nails on hands of the young man have to be cut is time. If you are going to put on shoes, then they need to be varnished. And, certainly, the face needs to be shaved smoothly.
Whether it is necessary to give something?
Undoubtedly, it is impossible to come empty-handed to mother and the father of the girl. Mother who, perhaps, will become further your mother-in-law needs to present flowers. But you should not give one rose – it looks as if you just decided "to shoot back". But also magnificent bouquets are not absolutely appropriate. The most suitable option – flowers in a basket. As for the father of your girl, it is possible to present him a cognac bottle. Also as a gift it is possible to present a basket of fruit, watermelon, or ice cream.
The correct behavior – it is very important
When you entered the apartment of parents of the girl, it is not necessary to give it packages of gifts at once. It is necessary to wait when mother and the father leave to greet you and to hand them gifts. It is not necessary to sit imposingly on a sofa, having embraced the darling. If her mother began to set the table, take an interest whether your help is necessary, but if you were assured that it is not required, it is not necessary to insist. It is necessary to address the girl's parents on a name and a middle name. Even if at acquaintance they told only the name, surely specify how you can call them. And only if they assure you that the name is quite enough, it is possible to lower the full address, but is strictly forbidden "to stick" with it. If you smoke – forget about the habit this evening. It is not necessary to dart constantly a glance at a balcony in hope "to smoke". And here if the girl's father himself suggests you to smoke, then it is possible to agree. You praise the dishes prepared by the girl's mother. You should not finish furiously with food on a plate, but, at the same time, to sit all evening, being picked by a fork the food offered you, impolitely. The hostess can think that something was not pleasant to you. If at a table there came awkward silence, try to start a conversation. But you should not touch upon a subject of policy, finance and economy because views of it of parents of the girl and you can cardinally differ. You should not sit on a visit late. Leaving, it is not necessary to think out various excuses. Mother and the father of your darling perfectly understand that the well-mannered person will not stay on a visit till the dead of night.