Any married couple, perhaps, does not do without quarrels and criticism to each other. And in it there is nothing terrible: the family is a living organism, and it sometimes needs disposal of slags. If you noticed that recently your spouse more often expresses discontent with your relations, think: whether enough attention you give to the wife?
Instruction
1. Try to discuss this subject with wife or to change the behavior. Perhaps, you do not notice any nuances in your behavior to which the spouse pays attention, interpreting them in own way.
2. The loving and attentive husband has to be able to calm the wife, to instill her confidence and to help to lead full-fledged life. Do you wish to be such spouse? Adjust dialogue and ask the wife the correct questions. Since what time does she so behave? Whether she is tired because of children or homework? Whether always at a difficult moment you are ready to lend it the strong male shoulder?
3. Ask the spouse on her feelings, do not hesitate to say more often to her that you still wish it and you love.
4. Support your wife in everyday cares of education of children. She will be much more friendly when sees that you divide them with it.
5. Try to remember how you behave on a visit. If, having come with you to a party, your wife feels like the invisible being while you easy and cheerfully stir with other women, it is quite logical that it will have a question: and what occurs when you have a rest without it?
6. Do not abuse the freedom. If, going to soccer with friends, you promise to return in two hours, try to return not at six in the morning.
7. The most frequent sexual fantasy of men – the woman who is wonderfully saved from all household efforts (children, the house, work) and agrees to all types of sex. Try to understand one simple thing. The man has sex to prove to the woman the love, but also to get rid of a stress, to relax. To the woman, even hotly loving the husband, on the contrary, it is necessary to relax to want sex! Create suitable climate. Your wife needs tender words and surprises to feel desired and favourite to want to take the initiative!