About friends many songs and sayings, stories and jokes are put. And nevertheless, the friendship nature, as well as love and also many other feelings, remains outside human understanding. There is a set of their definitions, but all highlight only a part, losing the rest. Whether really it is possible to recognize the true friend only in a trouble or there is a way to check it earlier?
1. Decide on the understanding of friendship. For each person there are features of interpretation of this feeling. Someone sees friendship at daily meetings with cheerful discussions, for someone the friend is with what it is possible not to see for months, but at a meeting to forget about separation. Who for you the friend? The person with whom it is possible to share everything? Who will always come to the rescue? Or, on the contrary, for which you are ready to give up all affairs and to come tearing along on the world's end? What it? Kind or preferring malicious irony, is more often sad or cheerful?
2. Be not too lazy to think up as much as possible questions and carefully write down them. Think over the answer to everyone. Trust not only the analysis of feelings, how many an intuition and hints of heart – whether to them not to know who your true friend. Finish work and once again look: whether there is something that you forgot, something important without what you do not represent the true friend?
3. Remember the friends. Do they haveDo they haveDo they have the described qualities? All or some one? You with surprise will find out that not everyone answers not a just ideal portrait of the true friend, but fall short even of his similarity. But you do not hurry to be upset, it is not the end yet.
4. Listen to what is prompted to you by soul: only one feeling – reckless trust allows to recognize the true friend. This list you forced themselves to be disappointed artificially in the friends, but for certain not in all. The feeling to true friends is stronger than any pieces of paper. And if among those whom you check there was at least one, the relation to which at you did not exchange in any way, it also is the true friend. Your friendship is higher than conventions and attempts to create rules, it exists, and nothing can destroy it.
5. Also do not forget: the true friend is that whom you never doubt. So before beginning check, think and whether really it is necessary?