Unfortunately, life of loving couple is not only roses and songs. Quarrels happens very difficult to avoid, especially if the man and the woman already live together and are forced to solve household problems constantly. However it does not mean that the guy has the right to offend the girl or the husband – the wife. If all this occurred, it is necessary to behave correctly that the unpleasant situation did not repeat further.
Instruction
1. Do not respond with insult to insult, especially if your guy is quick-tempered and in a rush of anger does not watch for by the own words, and after the quarrel itself is sorry about told. Most likely, he will apologize at you when he calms down. If he from those who just want to humiliate the girl ignore all his rough words, do not take them very much to heart and the more so do not make scandal. The slap in the face in such cases will be not the best option too. If it is difficult for you to restrain, go to other room.
2. If you see that the guy offends you intentionally, but not just tells everything that in the head will climb up, do not let it know that offensive words touch you. On the contrary, answer it cold and ironically. It is not necessary to shout or especially to cry, otherwise the offender will understand that he cut you to the quick.
3. Do not try to justify or prove to the man that he is wrong. Just you have to let him know that its insults not only are groundless, but also are silly, so, he makes of himself a laughing-stock. Show live interest the words of the guy. You can even notice that he tells tremendous things, you did not know about yourself such details earlier. Certainly, at the same time you have to understand that insults of the man have nothing in common with you.
4. Try to calm the guy. Sometimes or "you realize the words "do you understand that you say?" how it is unpleasant to me to hear all this?" make sober the man, damp his ardor and force it to understand that he told superfluous. If your quarrel takes place at strangers, especially at children, point to the guy to it. You can also let him know how ridiculously he looks, making scandal at other people.
5. When the guy recovers, ask it to offend you any more never. In case it continues to humiliate you, you should think of break in relations seriously. The fact is that intended cruel insults can pass later into the following stage – beating. If the guy is simply quick-tempered and does not control himself in an anger rush, try to discuss quietly with it this problem and together to find a solution.