If in your family one of partners made treason, but you after all made the decision not to destroy the relation, try to endure this situation and to learn lessons from it. It is possible to restore the relations even after treason if you love each other and are ready to forgive the partner.
Instruction
1. If you learned about treason of the husband, but understand that to you without him it will be very bad, then try to forgive him. But in that case nevermore reproach him this offense. The offense which you will hold in the heart will not allow you to become happy again. Agree with the spouse that you will start everything with a clean slate, but for it you will be able to give this chance only once.
2. Surely frankly talk to the spouse, not only his levity and frivolity, but also your misses can be the reason of treason of the husband. Think of whether often you are tender with the soulmate, whether often you arrange surprises, romantic dinners, whether enough you are well-groomed to attract interest of the man. Be able to admit openly and frankly the guilt in the incident.
3. Agree about how you will build further the relations. State each other what, in your opinion, interferes with harmonious development of the family relations. But do not dare to pass into conversation time for shout and insults. Keep calm, learn to listen to the partner and also try to look at this situation from his party.
4. Remember that time when you only began to meet, plunge into joint memories of the period of romantic meetings, declarations of love. You watch old photos and make plans for the future in which there will be many such pleasant moments.
5. If there is such opportunity, go together with the spouse to a travel (well if you manage to visit those places where you were happy), arrange for yourself second ""honeymoon"".
6. Struggle in the various ways with boredom and monotony in your family life: you visit more often, cafe, theater, leave on the nature together with children, prepare pleasant surprises for darling, etc.
7. Begin to watch yourself. Throw out the old dressing gown and get something easy and sexual, try to lose weight, tighten muscles. Surprise the partner with unexpected transformation: you go to hairdressing salon, do new hair or change hair color. After all, make shift of furniture in the apartment and regard it as the beginning of a new stage in your joint life.
8. Be in relation to the partner especially attentive and gentle, tender and careful, and you will be able to cope with any difficulties, so, to keep family.