"What we have – we do not store, having lost – we cry". How many the sad truth in this popular wisdom! Fully it belongs also to love. How often the woman, having quarreled with the beloved because of some trifle, misunderstanding, unreasonable jealousy, then bitterly is sorry about the fieriness! But already late, between them there was a gap. Whether it is possible to restore the former relations, to return the left love?
Instruction
1. To return former love, it will be required to estimate to you objectively and impartially own behavior, to understand in what you were wrong. Alas, many women because of the emotionality prefer to feel sorry for themselves and to shift all responsibility to other party. Especially, if still girlfriends chorus pick up: "All men are swine!". With such approach you will definitely not return former love. Therefore the first rule: do not feel sorry for yourself, and analyze the behavior and realize the mistakes.
2. Having understood them, try to change yourself, learn to be really attractive. And for this purpose, first of all, get rid of negative emotions which very much disturb. You have to understand: so far you in the power of experiences, you do not learn to get positive emotions! And it is absolutely necessary to change to the best.
3. But how to get these positive emotions if their main source – the person whom you was fallen in love disappeared? It is necessary to work by the principle: "Nature abhors a vacuum". You should look for (and to find) good points literally in everything, even in trifles. Update the clothes, do new hair, learn to cook some exotic dish, find to yourself an interesting hobby.
4. Whenever possible change scenery, go to the resort. Not so much to start a romance, and first of all to return self-confidence, to feel the appeal to men. The woman capable to get positive emotions changes in the eyes, and to her literally pulls men. Among them there can quite be the one whom she loved.
5. And here when you will feel and realize that you became actually absolutely other person, it is possible to try to have a talk with the former beloved. If he is sorry about a gap too, the former relations almost for certain will manage to be restored. If is not present, the changes which happened to you anyway will do good. At least, to find and hold new love.