They say that it is necessary to enter and return former love to one river twice. Almost all agree with it, however it is difficult to find the woman who after parting secretly would not wish to make a fresh start. If you do not trust popular wisdom and are sure that game is worth the candle, then, perhaps, there is a sense to try to return the beloved. But follow several simple advice not to do at once a set of mistakes.
1. First of all, define that to return man moves you in your desire. Would you likeWould you likeWould you like to return it because you lack it really, or only from desire to revenge and spoil to it life?
2. Realize whether the man left you or left to other woman. Remember that you have to forgive – yourself or it because neither with sense of guilt, nor with resentment to return any relations it will not turn out.
3. Make sure thatMake sure that you need really it and be ready to fight for the feelings.
4. Look for some bridges which still can connect you. You should not try to return the man who left very far and cannot communicate with you. Look for reasons for a conversation and if you have neither occasions, nor the general subjects, then your enterprise expects crash.
5. You should not remember only good. Remember everything that was – both pleasures, and mistakes, and its. Analyze a situation, understand why everything went not so. Both so you do not blame only yourself or only it are always guilty of the relations. Draw as much as possible conclusions – all of them will become for you the tool for return of the man.
6. Do not repeat own mistakes. Remember them all and try to do this time everything on the contrary. If you constantly arranged to the man of a hysterics at the slightest pretext, then time to learn to be quiet and balanced and if you constantly cried with any his word came, then it is necessary to learn to behave.
7. If you are going to return the man, change yourself. Change, but do not adapt to each its whim. If these relations are really expensive to you, then you will be able to step through own habits and own pride. The main thing is not to fall in eyes of darling once again.
8. Be patient and persistent. If you realized all the mistakes and are ready to change, all in your hands now. At your first meeting just reconcile, you should not do any too sharp steps, it can only frighten off. State quietly everything that became painful, and listen to everything that you will be told even if you will not like to hear all this. Try to say more on other subjects, to distract from sensitive issues. You speak about what it is interesting to both of you to speak about.
9. Be not persuasive at all. Certainly, if you are going to return the man, then you want to be constantly near him, but be patient. Not each man will be ready to return at once. Do not arrange him hysterics, do not become dependent on him and you do not revenge at all.
10. Not so each man will be ready to return. But often there is a set of trifles which connected you so strongly that the chance to start everything anew nevertheless is. Good luck to you be also happy, kind of all developed.