Sometimes the relations with the beloved become very tangled. All of you ask yourself a question more often whether and that is a person with whom it would be desirable to divide life. To leave the man, it is necessary to cease to have to him strong feelings. How to make it?
Instruction
1. To understand whether the present relations are necessary to you, ask yourself several following questions. Answering, do not embellish a situation, be honest. Having understood itself, you will understand, how to get rid from emotions which prevent to live quietly.
2. If there was a need to stop loving the person probably for this purpose there is a good reason, but it is not always realized. It serves frequent such reason deep offense, neglect, roughness from the man or his unwillingness to allow you to realize itself not only in the relations with it. And maybe, you were tired of his jealousy?
3. Be defined what you wait from the relations with this person for. What your initial plans were? Perhaps, you dreamed to marry, but forgot about the intentions because the man did not want to marry? Wonder whether you lead others life, having laid aside own expectations.
4. Think that he looks for in the relations with you. Perhaps, you for him just spare option whether it is worth being reconciled with such state of affairs? Whether accept you the status of the close girlfriend or you just reconciled to it for the lack of nothing the best? Be not afraid to admit to yourself that you are not ideal and too much you allow it. But it is not an occasion not to consider your interests.
5. The love is the finest feeling on the earth. If you want to get rid of it, think whether a certain dependence, painful feeling of attachment or just fear of loneliness is for you behind this concept? In such situation there will be not superfluous a consultation of the psychologist - to understand sometimes own tangled emotions happens not easy.
6. The one whom you love forces you to suffer? Report about it to it. Perhaps, he not quite understands that he will wound you. Give him a chance to make you happy, talk frankly. If verbal admonitions did not lead to anything, dare to be free from such relations. Once you will surely meet true love, take care for it.