Some girls, being going to marry, are afraid to meet mother of the future husband. In this regard they quite often ask experts for the help. Also they talk about it to the married girlfriends, in advance thinking of how it is better to arrive.
What character the mother-in-law can have
If you worry before a meeting with the mother-in-law, know that mothers at whom sons grew up are divided by character on several types.
Dobrozhelatelnitsa. Such mother-in-law, to enter into your family? will constantly present you and the son expensive gifts and gifts. And if you reject at least one of them, she will surely tell your husband that you the ungrateful person. Thus she will incite it against you.
At first sight you will never understand what actually mother of your future or already real husband just is jealous him and is afraid that she will recede into the background.
To undertake a rag which you use during cleaning and that mother-in-law who is a jealous woman will remove nonexistent dust. How will the son when she tells him that you are a bad wife apprehend her sighs? If he mother's darling, perhaps, with ease agrees that you do not cope with household chores. To please such mother-in-law, constantly agree with her. Still tell her about how you love her son and what he is a good husband. Do not forget to list all its advantages and to hold back shortcomings.
Perhaps, mother of your husband will understand that she gave him in a kind charge and will cease to climb in your family.
That woman at whom the adult son was going to marry and chose not that candidate in the wife whom mother would like will constantly raise the claim for the son. With her be more careful and more attentive. Do not take in head to quarrel at all, otherwise on "each corner" she will shout that you the bad and harmful daughter-in-law. She will tell the son that when he is out, you offend her. The female owner will try to keep the son near herself. In order that it is constant to see him, she will invent nonexistent holidays, meetings, diseases. Therefore to please, you visit together with the husband her, do not release its one. Never live together with his mother, otherwise you risk to destroy the marriage.
How to improve the relations with jealous mother of the husband
Problems in the relations between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law most often arise on the household soil. In order that to avoid them, call her the second mother and ask council in any given business. If the mother-in-law continues to be jealous the son of you, talk to the husband and find out problems which arose long before you. Still explain to the mother-in-law that you have a kind heart and find a solution to the conflict together. Of course, for this purpose buy cake, candies and a bouquet of its favourite flowers.