How to suggest to get acquainted

How to suggest to get acquainted

Today's rhythm of life often does not dispose to long podgotovka to acquaintance to the pleasant person. But if you count on in the slightest degree serious relations, you should have for emergency several receptions and acquaintance methods. And the main thing is to be oneself and not to fall apart because of possible refusal.

Instruction

1. If you see the person who was pleasant to you from time to time, and you have mutual friends, then there is nothing more simply, than to ask them you to acquaint. At the first meeting you do not talk about yourself without a stop: first, your friends already for certain told a lot of things about you that to interest he (she) in acquaintance to you, and secondly, placing emphasis on itself, you can pass, at best, for the inattentive interlocutor. Answer only those questions which to you will be asked, but do not reveal completely to intrigue the man (woman) and to continue acquaintance to it (with her).

2. Acquaintance on the street in representation of men and women has a different shade. Men, generally just want to get acquainted with the pleasant girl who can them and ignore. The woman, meeting the man on the street, can not always be well understood in spite of the fact that customs now quite free. Optimum the option is to go for a walk with friends or with girlfriends (for ladies) and to get acquainted with the attracted man (woman) who at present too in the company of friends. But men should be careful and to choose exclusively maiden companies, otherwise business can reach also a mass fight.

3. Phrases for acquaintance it is better to choose not the most banal. The maxim "What are you doing tonight" for a long time in the past, can also cause inadequate reaction. It is possible to take an interest, how to get to the library (on stadium, to the metro station, to a zoo, to a monument to Miklukho-Maclay). But here it is important to follow two very important rules: never get acquainted, being near a required object (or under the index) and, secondly, choose suitable time of day for such question.

4. Use some unexpected reception. It is better not to arrange performances of fights, thefts and stealing. If you in hot day met the nice girl, offer her ice cream or lemonade. If the girl refuses or will tell: "I do not love some sweet", offer her, for example, bitter chocolate with Antonovka. It if does not incline the girl to acquaintance to you, then, at least, will raise a smile on her lips. Play on contrasts.

5. Present to the pleasant girl a bouquet of flowers. The real woman will hardly refuse such gift. Handing a bouquet, present her a charming smile and be presented. You will have quite good chances for acquaintance setting, especially if heart of the young lady is free, and the smile was charming without stretch.

6. In the resort, in club or at restaurant it is much easier to get acquainted: the weakening situation disposes to communication. Invite the girl (young man) to sea walk or to dance: in these circumstances it will be regarded not as persistence, and as desire to have a good time in the good company.

7. If you have a pet, then to get acquainted with the pleasant person much more simply. If the person really quite good, then the dog, a cat or even a tame goldfinch become irreplaceable intermediaries at acquaintance.

8. If you hesitate to bring acquaintances in actual practice, begin with communication on the Internet. Having become the invisible interlocutor, you will gain initial skills of acquaintance in order that then to communicate with success also out of social networks. Use also dating sites, but with care as the virtual friend (girlfriend) can not always pursue the good aims.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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