News about treason of the spouse often makes the same impression, as a thunder with lightnings in the middle of clear day. Having learned that the husband has a mistress, women endure the severe stress sometimes leading to a long depression. It is necessary to calm down and get it together, kind of it was difficult. The sober mind will help to find a solution, and here tears and despair will not lead to anything good.
1. First of all, you need to weigh all pluses and minuses of marriage with the man who went for treason. How long you together? Whether you depend on it owing to any reasons? How carefully he hid an extramarital affair? If your husband did not even try, properly to disguise the adventures, the probability that unfaithfulness will repeat from time to time as for him it is in the order of things is high. Ask yourself the main issue - whether you will be able to forgive treason and to forget about it? At the negative answer there is a sense to think of a divorce as negative emotions will make the life further joint miserable.
2. The decision to fight for the happiness will demand from you certain efforts. Having received a treasured stamp in the passport and a wedding ring on a finger, many women relax and do nothing to maintain the interest of the man. Try to look at yourself critically. The subscription to the gym or the pool and also new clothes yet was interfered with nobody. Be engaged in sexual self-education, read specialized literature for persons interested to diversify intimate life. Let the husband know that he attracts you as the man, make everything to bring new paints in the matrimonial relations.
3. If the husband's mistress - your being or acting girlfriend, on your party powerful advantages. Use against it everything that is known to you of it. Accurately spill the beans on its adventures which are constantly bringing it into clinic for women, and even into a dermatovenereal clinic. Remember all secrets which the young lady ever shared with you, and skillfully expose the competitor in bad light. Even the most innocent information, being competently given, will turn into a lethal compromising evidence.
4. When the razluchnitsa is unfamiliar to you, try to find out, who is she and where it is possible to meet her. Catch sight to her in the company of the husband more often, most naturally showing that you have a full idyll in the relations. Unostentatiously dismiss in your circle of contacts rumors that the husband finishes you on the child or a round-the-world travel, and you in thoughts so far. It's a small world, and to your competitor they will be transferred by all means.
5. Collect so many data how many will be enough about the mistress to get an impression about her character and habits. You will be come to the rescue by social networks. It is desirable to observe it and to copy some features of her behavior. From time to time grotesquely represent the noticed lines or favourite phrases of the competitor so that to cause general laughter. The effect is guaranteed if to give this small idea in the presence of the people familiar with it, and your husband. The woman who became a laughing-stock instantly loses all the attractiveness for the man.