Unexpected pregnancy brings big changes in life, raises many doubts and contradictory thoughts. It is simpler to girls to understand and accept this situation, but men should report about pregnancy carefully, especially if you are not sure of its reaction.
Instruction
1. In family life when the child was planned and long waited, there is no need long to think over a way how to tell the husband about pregnancy. It is possible to report this pleasant news in the evening, alone, having arranged a small romantic dinner with wine for it and juice for you. When the spouse takes an interest in the reason, you can report about the forthcoming replenishment in family.
2. But absolutely other situation when pregnancy is sudden, and reaction of the guy is unpredictable. A lot of things depend on your relations here – as long you together, in marriage or not whether you planned children, and many other factors. But you should understand the main thing that it is necessary to speak about pregnancy alone and at a personal meeting. The call by phone or SMS are not suitable for such important news, and after such message there will be many questions, surprise so it is better for you to be near.
3. Contact the guy and suggest to meet. It is not necessary to fill with dramatic character a phrase "To us it is necessary to talk" or "There is a serious conversation". Though sometimes such frightening tactics helps to present unexpected pregnancy in an advantageous foreshortening if it expects something more terrible.
4. During the conversation you should not postpone a pregnancy subject long. For guys this information should be presented not hints ("You would like to become a father?"), and "I am pregnant with a direct phrase". It is possible to force it to lead if during the meeting you look depressed and sad, he will ask about the reasons of your behavior. After that you will tell the reason, having added concern and nervousness to a voice. In this case it will react more softly, will calm you and it will be easier for it to accept unexpected news.
5. Be ready to any reaction, especially if you want to report to the guy about unwanted pregnancy. Such surprise can cause fear of responsibility if the young man is young. You should not press on it, allow to think and give time to accept this news.
6. It is better to prepare the guy for this information in advance. In two-three days prior to the main news report to him about a delay, but you do not speak about pregnancy. Look at its reaction, tell that it will be necessary to buy the test and to find out precisely. From this point in his head there will already be thoughts of possible pregnancy, and your news will not be such shocking.