Each of us perceives treason differently. First of all, it is perceived as treachery of darling. Because of it families fall and the fate of people changes.
1. Forget about revenge. Behave adequately. Only in that case you will be able to respect yourself in the future. If you need to splash out the negative emotions – use some subject, for example, a pillow in which it is possible to shout.
2. Solve for yourself – whether you are going to keep the relations or not. Your further behavior depends on this decision. Whatever painful the gap, perhaps seemed, it is the only way out.
3. However if your feelings did not cool down yet, it is worth trying to kindle a love fire again. How to make it? It is possible only if you are able to forgive the apostate. Insincere and incomplete forgiveness will also lead to a gap. Only in that case it is necessary to pass through depressions and the family conflicts.
4. So, you could forgive treason. Talk to darling, try to understand his act. Understanding will be a key to your joint further actions. At a stage of forgiveness and understanding, you, most likely, should resort to the help. There will be it the psychoanalyst or the reliable friend – it is unimportant. The main thing that it could listen and keep you heard in secret.
5. Find out the act reason. Most often, psychologists call the reason boredom and monotony. Uproot them from your life. Change image, the residence, get a hobby, get new habits – all that will give novelty and sharpness to your feelings will approach.
6. Pay each other more attention. Remember how were happy once. And then only presence of darling for this purpose was necessary. Kind of you did not treat unfaithfulness, any given decision will remain for you.