As a rule, matrimony is under construction on trust. If the man and the woman contract marriage, they undertake some responsibility on implementation of certain obligations. Treachery of one of partners is a reason for a gap. But how to keep family, to dull pain and offense, to begin to trust the half after treason?
Instruction
1. Frankly talk to the husband to flog negative emotions. But at the same time the conversation has to be extremely honest and frank. It has to ask for you forgiveness, otherwise further joint life will not develop.
2. Communicate to the girlfriend, the native person. It is possible to address the psychologist. The main thing, you do not keep in yourself offense and tell about the feelings.
3. Analyze the family relations with your elect, find out what could lead to treason. The reasons which could push to it can be a little. Take an interest that the spouse in you does not arrange. Try to listen and understand the partner, then you will begin to trust each other.
4. You spend more time with the half. A joint travel, a dinner by candlelight – it will help to forget a little a bad story of its treason and to improve the love relations. As it is the best of all to struggle with negative emotions by means of positive.
5. Try to forget the offense and learn for yourself a good lesson from current situation. Try to use difficult circumstances to overestimate the views of marriage. But do not justify treason of the husband. Think of whether there is no your fault in the incident and.
6. Leave the past behind, it died and will not revive any more. Your life depends only on the decision made by you. Begin to build the new relations with the husband after treason and enjoy them.
7. Stop to do of yourself the victim. Of course, to you it is unpleasant and painful, but to sympathize with itself is not an exit if you want to improve the relations with the spouse.
8. Accuse nobody. So, after treason of the husband you want to swear, beat ware. Perhaps, it will give some small relief, but will hardly promote strengthening of your trusting relationship. Or the spouse will just leave. Therefore the best option is to hold the pride. Do not forget that you agreed to it, first of all, consciously.