Usually, having left, the former lovers or spouses practically cease to communicate: begin to spend time in various companies, visit other bars and try not to be crossed in a random way on the street. However it is not so simple to avoid society former if you work in one company.
Instruction
1. Than your relations ended, try to remain if not friends then friends. And you, and the former young man have to understand that without it collaboration will be extremely difficult. Initially you can limit your communication to exclusively working questions. Everyone can carry out lunches, tea drinking and smoke breaks in the company.
2. Do not discuss the fact of your parting with colleagues, its reasons. All your words can reach the former beloved, and he will hardly be delighted to the fact that he became the main hero of the gossips going on office. It will not help to keep the comfortable working atmosphere to you, and vengeance of the offended man can be fearful.
3. After parting the people often experience not positive emotions on the relation to each other. If former wants to revenge you, having substituted before the administration, you have to be fully equipped. Just perform the work ideally, and hardly something will threaten you. If you are presented to point a case to the chief to the ex-boyfriend's "jamb", try to constrain your rush. Similar hostile moods will very harmful affect your collaboration.
4. Try also not to react to gossips, questions and subsplittings which for certain will be if at work at least several colleagues knew about your communication. If you had a new partner, do not hurry to tell about all this attendee in an office – it can provoke negative reaction from former.
5. You do not create new novels at work to tease former. And in general try to refrain in the future from beginning to meet already other colleague. First, it will negatively affect your reputation. And secondly, sometimes happens hardly to work also with one former and what you will do if they become a little?