Sometimes happens it is impossible to distinguish love from love. At the beginning of the relations almost all think that this person also is the only love on for the rest of the life. However time goes, and the heat of feelings gradually decreases, and then suddenly suddenly completely disappears. It is important to understand where love comes to an end and the true strong love begins.
To fall in love — does not mean to fall in love
Opinions of psychologists differ, however, is considered to be that the condition of love is similar to a disease or obsession. The person in love is capable of meaningless acts, and to him a lot of things say goodbye. Keen on feelings, he wants to possess a subject of the adoration completely. Often people get to a trap of own passions and confuse true feelings with transient flash of rough emotions.
Love inspires and gives feeling of euphoria to replace which the disappointment and melancholy shortly come. The known fact – people in love suffer from frequent change of mood and become hostages of the passions and desires.
The love implies absolutely a different approach. The loving person will never begin to make madnesses. Undoubtedly, externally the passion looks much more attractively. It is impossible to like deep feeling to the person after several meetings. Unfortunately, "the love at first sight" does not happen. The great sympathy, enormous inclination, passion, obsession – anything, but only not true love is possible. To create true, deep feeling, it is required to go a long way.
When the true love is born
The main difference between love and love is that the person in love thinks first of all of himself, and loving about the partner. The long and strong relations cannot be based on love. In love the people see all shortcomings of each other and accept the darlings such as they are, care for them, support. The true love demands a materialization. People give each other gifts, do pleasant surprises, please the darling, at last, bring children. If to one it is bad, then the soulmate suffers together with him, moments of happiness are endured together too. It happens so that over time, people become even externally similar at each other, and at times and think equally. People live in the atmosphere of full confidence and confidence in own feelings. Over time love disappears and it is succeeded by disappointment, and the love over the years, on the contrary, becomes even stronger and stronger. Sometimes, that the passion is transformed over time to love when people know each other better. It is possible to tell that love is only the first step, a small part of a big way under the name "True love", and not everyone is fated to pass it.