The divorce is a serious test for married couple. It is necessary not only break off the relations, but also completely to change all course and a rhythm of habitual life. Relentless figures of statistics demonstrate that in Russia more than 57% of couples which concluded official marriage get divorced. What reason pushing spouses to so serious step?
The reasons for a divorce there can be great variety. But psychologists allocate six main which inevitably lead to break in relations.
First of all is an unavailability to the family relations. The loving people, marrying, seldom realize that happy family life is not only romantic relations to which they got used. In marriage it is necessary to work seriously on the relations, to be able to listen, understand, forgive, adapt, to make a compromise, to look for the common decisions of any questions. The family is not only love, and huge responsibility, mutual understanding and respect. Against the background of family everyday life there has to be a feeling of warmth, friendship. If the mad passion ceased, and it was not succeeded by something bigger, the meaning in cohabitation is completely lost. There is a question of a divorce.
Not less relevant reason pushing spouses to a divorce – incompatibility of characters and views. Comfortable stay is with each other possible with mutual interest any given business. The common goal, the vital principles, common cause unites spouses. If it there is nothing, the vacuum, that is full emptiness appears. Spouses understand that further cohabitation is a way in anywhere. One more popular reason pushing spouses to a divorce – money. If marriage consisted by calculation, and calculation did not come true, it is an inevitable way to break in relations. The lack of money is also frequent, but not always, leads to a divorce. Acquisition by one of spouses of addictions is the one more cause of a divorce. Alcoholism, a game addiction, drug addiction – the reasons which lead to a divorce in most cases. The marital infidelity and sexual incompatibility stand on the fifth and sixth place and are the reasons leading to break in relations. These are only highlights which statistically and, according to psychologists, lead to break in relations in most cases. It is possible to carry to other causes of a divorce: infertility of one of spouses, lack of own housing, separate accommodation or a long absence, the conclusion to places of detention, etc.