Though the family relations are always built by two persons, will consider typical errors of a fine half of mankind in marriage.
Instruction
1. Wrong opinion of many young wives that after the wedding, it is possible to relax, at last. It is not so important to watch so carefully himself, it is not necessary to draw attention any more and to surprise new images as the husband has to perceive the wife such what she is. And to men, as we know, of other opinion, the woman always has to remain a woman. Fine, distinguished, refined and always different.
2. Some women consider that after marriage, on the man a number of functions lays down. For some reason he has to and is obliged to do any given things. Nobody should not nothing to anybody. The family relations, are under construction on mutual aid and love. Desire has to care, to be natural. Do not fight desire to make you happy off men.
3. A lack of communication, it becomes frequent the reason of disagreements. Women can communicate without a break for hours with the girlfriend by phone. Men sometimes take offense at lack of attention from wives. It's clear that you will not begin to discuss cosmetics and hairstyles with the husband. Find the general subjects, ask, how was your day at work, be interested in his hobbies. It is extremely important for men.
4. Never criticize and you do not scold the husband, especially in the presence of witnesses. First, you will achieve only reciprocal aggression, secondly, you will push away from yourself the man. The man main he always needs to ego-trip in the superiority, the last word behind it. Wise women never order the husbands, they delicately prompt and advise.
5. With the child's birth, on the man and the woman a large amount of new cares lays down. Of course, the first months, the whole world to turn around the kid, parents get used to a new way of life. Being careful mother, you should not forget about a role of the beloved spouse. Men often feel how the wife moves away and even begin to be jealous of the kid. Do not forget to pay attention to the spouse. When the man feels love, care and attention, he will seek to pay back the same.
6. Never criticize and you do not speak bad about friends and the spouse's relatives. It is always better to find a common language even with those people who to you are not really nice. You became a part of the life of the man only recently, and he grew in this environment always. Also will listen for certain to councils and opinion of friends and family.