Of course, each person himself is responsible for the feelings including for a condition of happiness, but in many respects it depends on the people surrounding it and other moments. And if for most of women a major factor of happiness is that a row (the man, family, children), then the sphere of happy interests of the man is usually wider. Though the beloved always has very strong impact on the partner.
The thought that at everyone the representation and the criteria of happiness it is banal, but from it does not become less faithful. Though there are some components which are relevant for most of men. Almost each man needs feeling of self-realization and feeling that its achievements are appreciated by people around (beloved, relatives, colleagues, the administration, etc.). And not an essence important as far as these achievements are really big. If you want to see the man happy, praise him for any, even insignificant, even sometimes far-fetched success. The methods used at encouragement of children are completely applicable also to men. Do not think that if you criticize, it will enhance the efforts more likely on the contrary - will lower hands and will be depressed.
Material expression of men's achievements (car, the apartment, the house, etc.) noticeably add positive feelings. But having all this, most of men understands that the entire happiness requires something else.
The man has to feel like the owner in the house. The wise woman will always find a way to direct thoughts and actions of the husband in fundamental issues in the direction necessary to it, but you should not do it by force. Also do not bother the close man with the Permanent Councils and instructions as how to do, let solves. Feeling of own importance - one of the most important components of men's happiness. Even in family life the man needs private life - friends, to a hobby. Do not try to forbid or to strictly limit his communication out of family. The man not less woman wants to feel desired. It is expressed in less romantic form, but from it does not become less important. Give to the man pleasure in a bed, carry out his desires, try to support always its initiative and show it. The men's and female mentality and perceptions very much differ, but if to try, then it is quite possible to learn to understand each other. - try to understand the main thing that the man wants to tell, but do not react to intonation or the implication seeming to you. Avoid the charges which are especially said in strong language. If you want to explain something to the man, talk in his language, avoid hints and a nedogovorok, you speak directly and it is, whenever possible, reasoned. The more mutual understanding and trust, the it is more reliable than the relation and the atmosphere in the house is more comfortable. And, of course, for happiness the man needs to feel favourite and only too. Care for it, show the tenderness and caress and accept it it what it is, without trying to remake.