Why the man at the beginning of the relations is romantic, shows gallantry, pays compliments, and then, through certain time, changes and behaves so as if he grew cold or stopped loving? Kind of it sounded is banal, it is all about men's psychology, as we know, the man by the nature the hunter. Therefore in the beginning he uses the best efforts that the woman became "it", and then when he achieved it, its interest vanishes. So what isSo what isSo what is is possible to make to recover its feelings to you?
In what difference of men's psychology - its feelings to the woman directly depend on interest which it in it attracts. For example, if the man changes, he does it not because stopped loving but because he looks for new impressions. So that to return its feelings, it is necessary to cause in him interest in you, and then constantly or from time to time to maintain interest.
To intrigue the man at the very beginning of acquaintance, many efforts are not required - rather feminine coquetry. But if you for a long time together, there has to be other tactics.
What attracts interest of the man? Something new, unclear to it that he wants to solve. For this reason say that the woman has to be a riddle for the man. Actually, you do not need to represent for this purpose something or to play a riddle. For men the woman - a secret in itself, a riddle which he cannot understand up to the end. Femininity is what is in you by nature, what does unarmed the strongest man. What is femininity? It not only wisdom and softness, it also innuendo, reticence. You can live with the man many years, but he so never until the end of you will solve. Therefore the first rule to maintain interest in the man: not to reveal before it completely. Let you (and at it) will have some personal space. Do not impose it yourself at all. The communication, opinion, feelings. Men do not love when to them something is imposed, they need to show an initiative. Give the chance to it it to show - for you. If you in something need the men's help, do not hurry to show that you will cope with everything. Encourage each its action when he cares for you (to open before you a door, to bear bags from shop, to meet you after work, etc.). He will behave as the gentleman if you behave as the lady. It is not necessary to think that the man has to - to love something, to care, not to change, etc. Your task is not to induce him something to do, and to make so that he wanted to make it. That it was pleasant to it to care for you. One more frequent mistake is reproaches. Reproaches from the man to achieve nothing, it is possible to cause mutual irritation or a quarrel only. At the same time, you should not think that you in everything have to adapt to him and please. Also you should not be obsessed with your relations. Be interested in something new, receive new impressions, communicate with different people, be self-sufficient. The man can lose interest in the woman when he thinks that she is completely won. You need to shake this confidence. Let he will see that you are pleasant also to other men. You can poflirtovat a little to be convinced of it (the main thing, not to go too far). If everything is ineffectual, it is possible just to leave the man for some time. Of course, at the same time there is a risk that it will leave for ever. If so it turns out, you will be able then to find other person who will really love you. If your man wants to return you then when deals with the feelings. In this case he will understand that you are necessary to it, will protect you and will not want to lose again.