The love not always happens according to the standard scenario - met, pleasant each other, got married. Very often strong feelings appear at the people who are already married. And women need to think very well before reciprocating to not free man.
It is necessary to make of the relations with the married man light - then there will be no disappointments.
When the married man falls in love with the free woman, many women have a feeling that it is destiny. They do everything in order that the man divorced, left family and they would become the real couple which does not need to disappear from anybody. However not free men do not hurry to destroy the settled relations. Even if they are strongly in love, the wife and children remain for them on the first place. Especially if the mistress is rather patient and is not going to change such deal. Everything suits the man. He has a house in which wait for it. And the beloved who gives unforgettable emotions. Such life can proceed very long. Mistresses, if they are not ready to play by such rules, very strongly suffer. Though the way out depends only on them. If they understand what so cannot proceed further - it is necessary to fight for darling. Most likely, it will be quite dirty game which will not necessarily end with a victory. And to it it is necessary to be ready. Also it is worth understanding that not always men tell the truth. And even if declaration of love sounded - it does not mean at all that the man has intentions to build new couple. He could tell it just like that to make to the mistress pleasant, to attach even more her to itself(himself).
You should not trust the man at once. Analyze acts, but not words, then it will be clear that he actually wants.
If there is desire to cast in the lot with the person who is at present in marriage with other woman - you should not hurry. It is necessary to choose the correct tactics of behavior that he decided to finish the old relations and to begin new. First, you should not be imposed. Than nezavisimy the woman will also be more free, especially she is attractive to the man. Secondly, it is not necessary to hurry and accelerate events. You watch behavior of the man, think over the behavior - and you will remain in a prize. Thirdly, be more resolute. Through some time after the beginning of the relations with the married man tell it about the desires. Only be ready that they will surprise him. Very often men count on an affair and do not wait for something serious. After straight talk the one who was not in love will not appear any more. And if the man was captured by strong feelings, he will take a timeout and after that will make the final decision.