Maturing, the girl begins to doubt correctness of what to her was told by parents. It is set by a set of questions, and one of the most difficult of them is a question of whether guys of modest girls love? Different people have different opinions on this occasion.
Ten-fifteen years ago the modesty was considered as unconditional virtue. "The modesty decorates the girl", - so spoke then, but there were always girls and men too who parried: "When there is no jewelry any more". In the modern world the opinion that the modesty, on the contrary, can only prevent in achievement of the purposes became stronger. Whether the modesty so is plus for the girl?
The reasons for which guys like modest girls
There is an opinion that from the modest and timid girl the ideal wife will turn out. First of all, the modest woman does not like to draw general attention to herself, thereby she will not begin to provoke flashes of jealousy at the young man. Besides, it is considered that modest women prefer to a visit of club and a noisy sit-round gathering till the morning slow evenings in a house situation with reading the book and baking of pie. It cannot but be pleasant to the serious young man focused on homeliness.
Modest women are indifferent to shopping – this rather controversial thesis is put forward by men who consider modest girls very attractive. Except economy of money which the light-headed beauty by all means will lower on dresses-shoes-chulochki the modest woman also will devote all the free time to something more useful – study, work, arrangement of life, at last.
Decisive argument in the choice of the companion of life which is made between more and less modest girls is the fact that quite often modest women long time remain virgins. Thus, probability is high that you will turn out the first and only man at the darling that, certainly, cannot but flatter male vanity.
The reasons for which guys do not like modest girls
Girls who are excessively modest, timid are uninteresting to many self-sufficient men and are not sure of themselves. Such girls are not capable to show an initiative in one question, and even when it proceeds from the man, they only redden, turn pale and turn away. Especially sharply it is shown in intimate relations, at least, when they only begin. Quite often young man wants not only most to be sure that his girl the best, but also to receive confirmation to it from people around. To the young man can be pleasant to see that pay attention to his girl, stop on her a look; and some envy from own friends actually lifts its self-assessment. Certainly, the bright and self-assured girl draws attention of people around much more, than the modest meek creature. Actually there is no right answer on a question of what girl is more attractive to guys – modest or relaxed only. Each person has the preferences based on any given life experience. It is important to remember that all people have "half" - that person who will be ideal in all respects. It is important to do not pass only that moment when you meet this person.