Children usually have no doubt that they need mother. She is, and it is normal, natural to them. Children, as a rule, do not think why she to them. Each mother has to ask this question to herself. And the fate of her child depends on to what she will give the answer.
Since the first moments of life, the child depends on mother. Tender hands of mother, her gentle voice. Mother for the kid is a rest and a cosiness, stability and an order. By means of mother, communication of the child with the outside world is carried out.
Every day of life, the emotional connection between mother and children gets stronger more and more. As mother reacts to the events, the kid also reacts. If mother is quiet and sure, then the kid is quiet. If mother constantly something is dissatisfied or alarmed, it is not surprising that the child is capricious and cries.
The child grows up, but communication with mother remains. From mother the kid learns new, together with it learns the world. Mother for it - protection and a support. The maternal love is unconditional. Mother - that person who loves the child only for the fact that he is. It is not necessary to be afraid to spoil love. If the child feels maternal love, constantly hears from mother that he the best, at him appears confidence in own forces. But, together with love, at behavior of mother there has to be also a severity. Reasonable restrictions discipline the kid, and confidence of mother in the correctness provides to the child tranquility. Of course, mother it is necessary to obey, she knows better and better and is able. And, being near such mother, the child is quiet, he is not afraid of the huge world, he is sure that will always come to the rescue of it. When the whimsical child manages to order the family, there is the return. The child does not feel security. How can he be helped by mother who on the first cry runs to carry out its whims? To the kid it is terrible, he has such feeling that one should fight against the unfamiliar world. That love and attachment which mother can give to the child cannot be replaced with anything. Depends on her education what will become the little person. At mother the daughter learns to be kind, tender, gentle. And the son - careful, courageous and strong.