As well as in every respect, sooner or later partners have a question of acquaintance to parents. And most often there are certain problems. For harmonious relationship of couple the positive family contact therefore it is necessary to understand such important aspect as acquaintance to the guy's parents is always necessary.
Reason No. 1 is fear
Usually guys strongly do not think of acquaintance of parents and his girls. However there are situations when the young man just is afraid that his mother or father will negatively react to the choice of the son therefore hesitates with acquaintance. There is other situation: the guy in the past had an unsuccessful acquaintance of the girl to his parents, now it had a fear that everything will repeat again. Though if to ponder upon a situation more deeply, it becomes clear that the young man just is afraid of the parents or one of them. Or it just has no independent opinion. All this is very sad, but is reparable. This problem with the help of establishing confidential contact in family between all her members is solved. But it not always manages to be made therefore in certain cases there is a sense to consult with the family psychologist.
Reason No. 2 is the social status
Happens so that the guy from rich family just is ashamed to bring on acquaintance to parents the girl from ordinary family. In rare exceptions happens on the contrary when the wealthy girl is estimated by parents as the person from society. Thereby they, most likely, will tell the son that the last just will not pull her, that is will not be able to satisfy all inquiries of such lady. And still, as practice shows, the first case happens much more often. There is a question: and why then the guy met such girl? Here everything is simple. There are people to whom owing to the character the social status of the person is important, and there are such to which all the same on it. Actually all people are equal, all will die sooner or later, and all can come down from the president to the BUM, and from the chief of the large company to the unemployed. Therefore here the situation will be quite difficult to be corrected. If the guy finds proper words for parents and will manage to convince them of the aforesaid, perhaps, they will accept the girl and will approve the relations of young couple.
Sometimes it happens so that the guy from a dysfunctional family. Perhaps, his parents suffer from excessive consumption of alcoholic drinks therefore the young man can quite hesitate to show the family to darling. In conclusion it should be notedit should be noted that whatever the relations at the guy and the girl were, the moment of acquaintance to parents surely will come sooner or later, of course, if the guy has serious intentions. For this reason young men should not make mistakes and to dump the girlfriend on various pretexts, only because of fear of acquaintance to parents. It will be far more correct to solve a similar problem once and for all.