Why the loving people leave

Why the loving people leave

As it is sad and sad, hopeless and sad when two people loving each other leave for the ridiculous reasons. It would seem, the love will overcome everything! But is not present, stirs "a human factor" - unwillingness to understand the partner, obstinacy on any principles, gossips of ill-wishers and many other things.

At parting lovers can provide many reasons, and in reality can not be any, really important. Sometimes behavior stereotypes, looking back on people around prevent to stay together. If two people fell in love with each other, already having families, public opinion just forces them to leave. All this talk of "kind advisers" with requests to think of children and parents. Of course, it is necessary to think of them, but also to forget that life this yours and it one, is not necessary too. And whether it will be so good to your children near the unfortunate, broken being who is their father or mother? It is possible in a civilized way and without scandals to get also out of such situation and to keep the love. Do not leave darlings! Long and frequent business trips gradually separate people, they get used to do the friend without friend. Lovers need to feel the partner skin, to hear his breath, to look at trembling of eyelashes of darling - without this feeling wither, constant fatigue from melancholy for the partner appears. If it is impossible to refuse traveling for the objective reasons, find an opportunity to travel together. Not for nothing wives of Decembrists went for husbands! Often misunderstanding, accident, someone's malicious intent happens the reason of parting of the loving people. You do not hurry to sever relations if it seemed to you that your partner changes you. Sometimes as a result of straight talk some silly absurd which formed a basis for suspicions is found. And, if you made scandal with a beating of ware and mutual insults, could leave because you told each other a lot of superfluous. Even having learned precisely that darling changed you, you do not hurry to act rashly. Circumstances are so different that in most cases it is possible to forgive the person whom you love and who loves you. The inability to build the general life can serve as the reason of parting of the loving people too. There can be both the wrong expenditure of the general material supplies, and inept cooking of the woman, and unwillingness of the man to help about the house. Usually, it is worth meeting halfway each other, to reach compromise to solve these problems. People are not be lonely absolutely - they have relatives, friends, acquaintances. If they for some reason decided to separate the loving couple, they are able to do it. Be attentive to the words of the people surrounding you, the conflict is better to warn, than to eliminate its consequences. The true love is a big rarity if you possess such miracle, store it, the second chance can not be.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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