Marrying, young girls hope for cloudless continuous happiness of family life. However dreams quite often break against reality when the happy wife learns that the husband is not faithful to it. What to do in that case?
Why men change?
Many people, especially women, often confuse passion with love. And it is absolutely different things. The love is pure sincere feeling to the person, aspiration to make his life it is better. And passion – strong inclination to a certain person, desire to possess a body (and sometimes and soul) and to derive pleasure from it.
If you married, being based only on physical inclination, then problems in family can begin within the first five years after marriage. As soon as your passion for the spouse grows cold (and it happens), the husband will begin to glance on the left . And kind of you wanted to return fire to the relations, it will be possible to make it hardly.
Try to approach a problem on the other hand. Look at the husband with a fresh pair of eyes and solve whether are ready to give him happiness for the next several decades (ideally, of course, to a grave). If is not present, then it is possible, it is worth breaking off the relations and to begin to draw life from scratch. If you answer this question in the affirmative, start active actions.
How to keep family and to restore trust?
- For a start try to relax. Do not exasperate daily the husband with inquiries about where he was today and that did. As a rule, the men having mistresses are irritated from such questions as they are afraid to blurt out something superfluous.
- Kind of it was not heavy and sore, do not think of unfaithfulness of the husband, you should not represent in pictures of a scene of an adultery and to nourish idea to sweep. Devote the most part time to yourself, darling. Yes, it is most of all necessary for you now.
- Begin to visit the gym or sign up for yoga courses. It is fine if time of your leaving the house coincides with the periods when the husband is in the apartment. Make toilet, put on a beautiful dress, tint lips, send to the husband an air-kiss and fly away on occupations dances or any other interesting business.
- Also, certainly, you should not forget about the family duties, but be not overzealous. Periodically indulge the husband a tasty breakfast or a tasty dinner. The main thing for you is to interest the man again, to make so that he sought to subdue you anew. As you understand, scandals and hysterics will not promote it.
- Shine, laugh, radiate happiness. Yes, it is difficult, but for the sake of happiness of family it is possible to use the best efforts and to try to look dazzling. Possibly, the husband will suspect you of treason, it will distract him from the campaigns on the left. But you that know that your conscience is pure so do not stop, and develop the inner world, find new hobbies, periodically invite darling to walk, a romantic appointment or at cinema.
Remember that to restore completely destroyed relations it is almost unreal. But if in heart of your husband glimmers though a weak sparkle of love for you, his behavior will change. You turn for it into the mysterious and beautiful woman who wants to be tried to obtain, pleased and carried on hands.