Men, as it is considered the majority, poligamna and to have besides the wife also the mistress for many became the norm of life. But, despite youth and appeal of hunters temptresses, most of "faithful" husbands, having acquired, return to the spouses.
Many men are coward in essence, and it cannot change something cardinally to them often. To start a small affair on the party – yes, it raises a self-assessment, blood excites and in general lets know to "the hero of the novel" that he is still quite attractive man. But, as soon as there is a choice problem, it is awfully frightened by changes: it is necessary to build all over again, to meet new relatives and in general, to live in a different way.
One more reason, besides the cowardice which is a point in favor of the choice of the wife her reliability acts. The wife is the person checked for years, she is not capable to give any surprise, her character, habits, reactions and acts are studied to trifles. The mistress, in this sense, all the same, that "pig in a poke", still is unknown, what actually character at it and what her hobbies. In "candy buketny" the courting period all want to prove to be from the best party.
Powerful argument is also that with the wife the man is often connected by serious tests which they passed together. Together, holding hands, overcoming two of them. It brings together, promotes strong attachment which is much more expensive than immediately flashed and so quickly gone out love on the party. The man considers that the wife is mother of his children at choice implementation too. The general children raised by joint cares and love connect two people much stronger, than anything. Therefore the mistress very often can hear from the man: "Sorry, but I have children …" Not the last role is played and directly by feelings of the man to his wife. Some spouses are capable to keep love throughout all joint life and just do not look at other women. Unfortunately, such men are not enough, but they are, and on a question: "Why the wife is better than the mistress?" answer rather simply: "Yes because I love only the wife".