Mothers with two children perfectly understand expression "Groundhog Day". Every day a house routine, children's whims and scandals, and, above all – a catastrophic lack of time. But also this problem can be solved, having learned it is correct to place priorities and competently disposing of the time.
To remove all superfluous
Learn house time-management. All complaints to a lack of time are its wrong distribution. For a start be defined what put pervonachalna and what can wait or them can be excluded from the life in general. In the category of affairs necessary include child care, walks in good weather, cooking. On the second place put cleaning. And here it is possible to leave the TV and the Internet safely for later, and in general temporarily to refuse viewing the first.
Child care should not include anything superfluous too. Read less magazines which promote development from the cradle earlier. It is not necessary to learn to read the newborn and to drag the senior on ten circles. Stop the choice on those which really are pleasant to the child and from them there are practical benefits, and these are no more than two-three. Operating time of circles and sections has to coincide walks with the younger child over time. At that time, so far the senior on dances or karate, you walk nearby, and then take away him. Also he does not need the pool at 8 in the evening and chess at 9 in the morning, stay the egoist, think of yourself.
Culinary cunnings
In general, at distribution of time of sacrifice there has to be less. It is not necessary to walk during a rain or a hard frost, to nobody it went to advantage. It is not necessary to do every day damp cleaning, it is only enough to vacuum. You do not save dirty ware in a sink. Or at once wash for yourself and accustom to it all family members, or put in the dishwasher. And actively use various household appliances which strongly simplify life of mummies. The thing megapopular now as the multicooker, has to register at you in kitchen. Takes places a little, cooks well and it is useful. You leave to walk, you load the multicooker, and to return you receive a tasty lunch or a dinner. And spend free time on yourself. If in the morning of the senior child in a garden or school dad takes away, since evening put to cook porridge. Also you sleep farther with the kid with quiet conscience. Dad will be able to get porridge and to feed (it is not even necessary to heat). The bread machine, a convection oven, the yogurt maker, the robot vacuum cleaner also belong to such "lifesavers". Stock up with home-made "fast food". Always have in the freezer of preparation and semi-finished products, but only a home cooking. One evening will occupy you preparation of chicken cutlets, "lazy" stuffed cabbage, quenelles, "hedgehogs", cheesecakes. From store freezing have a stock of vegetables and berries, puff pastry for fast pastries. Also make, for example, a dinner together with children. It does not mean that they should give a knife or a nimbus for knocking down. Though it can be entrusted the senior child. The mistake of many mothers is in what is prepared by them when children sleep, and this time can be spent on themselves. You with children will definitely not make manicure, and will put chicken in an oven easily.
We grow together
Try to organize joint pastime for children. A frequent mistake which is made by parents is desire to save the kid from the senior child. But grow at it together and future relationship is put right now. Organize joint games. When children stair-steppers or with a small difference it is simple to make it. And if one half a year, and other ten years? Younger you put on the developing rug, and with the senior you sit down nearby to play Uno, Monopoly in what his soul will wish. Also and you do homework. Younger in hands a pencil and a separate notebook, and with the senior you solve mathematics.