Many mothers with concern say that the child as though was changed. At the same time note that it occurred when the age of the child began to approach by three years. Crisis of three years - an inexplicable thing. Earlier quiet child becomes angry and irritable, at him ""I"" which goes counter to common sense am born own.
At this age to strike or bite someone children consider norm. Begin to fight with parents and friends, offend and in general behave extremely nasty. Hysterics are followed by terrible shouts, not bought toy or candy becomes an occasion to begin to roar and fall in spite of the fact that you are in the public place.
The main mistake of many parents consists in the following: they begin to react to all wonders which are worked by earlier quiet child during crisis of three years. And children feel it and begin to soil more. To beat the child too not option, he will grow up embittered, and will not love the parents and I pound a little from a belt.
Children is shrewd psychologists, they feel that moment when ""concert"" can end with acquisition of what they dreamed of. It is much cheaper to give or buy, than to watch its shouts in the middle of shopping center. Many think of when crisis of three years ends. With an accuracy it is impossible to tell, formation of the personality at everyone takes place differently, but usually by four years takes place by itself. And the less you will pay to all hysterics of attention, the quicker the child will understand that thus to achieve nothing it will not turn out. Also will begin to look for other courses and exits to your heart, the main thing is to develop the correct strategy of the behavior which will positively influence your child.