Any parent wants to bring up the child self-sufficient and able to build the relations with people which meet on the way. Many books are written on education of the harmonious personality, but you should not forget that the child studies, observing and feeling. Maturing, he absorbs behavior of the parents, their manner to communicate and work in family and in society.
Dictatorship
The family despotism suppressing an initiative of the kid in life situations, new to it, leads to the fact that the child grows up with severe "lameness" of independence. If the growing person since childhood observes manifestation of dictatorship from the strong parent to weaker family members or to it, there is a high probability that it will accept this behavior model. Having become the despot in the relations, he will begin to use "force" to all sooner or later to whom it is possible.
Guardianship
Perhaps, it is the most widespread tactics of family behavior, care is the main thing in the relations with children, but all understand it differently. Excessive guardianship can make of the child a weak-willed being needing the help from outside in the solution of the simplest questions and also to give it utopian understanding that all have to it and if do not give, then it is necessary to take by force.
Confrontation
Opposition and "military operations" in family are started by constant irritation and mutual offenses. The child learns excessively to be protected and at the same time to thinly notice and exaggerate weaknesses of other people. Maturing, he will also declare war by another "bad" around himself, will not forget also about parents.
Peaceful existence
Such form of behavior of parents with the child becomes ridiculous when in family there is a position of extreme non-interference. The family can pay indifference and discharge from family at its critical moments when its participation and the help is required for total freedom of choice of classes and actions, identity of the child.
Cooperation
It is considered that such form of the family relations the most harmonious. The little person grows with understanding of value of and others, ready to support close at a difficult moment, to lend the shoulder and also can quietly count on the help of other people.