There is no such person who would be passed by a fate of school love. Unfortunately, from it the long relations flowing in joint life and therefore, perhaps, the word "love" is rather disputable here seldom turn out, but with confidence it is possible to tell that precisely each girl had a sympathy for the schoolmate. But not everyone managed to sweetheart the boy. So, how to behave to be pleasant to the schoolmate?
Club on interests
Certainly, many girls choose tactics which seems to them correct is tactics of identical hobbies. And, it is necessary to recognize, in it there is a rational grain! The fact that the person sharing your preferences, your hobby in the most part of cases will be interesting to you is indisputable. Understanding it, many young ladies try to copy "subconsciousness" of a subject to lamentations. However, here it is necessary to work very accurately, at all not to go to far.
In order that "it is not required to collect information" about the one who to you is nice many efforts – if you rather courageous, then you can ask all questions interesting you personally to it. If is not present – talk to his friends.
In order that "it is not required to collect information" about the one who to you is nice many efforts – if you rather courageous, then you can ask all questions interesting you personally to it. If is not present – talk to his friends.
Learn what music is pleasant to your hero what he watches movies of what he is fond of sports (and if he is fond, then what club he supports) what reads books, than does in the spare time. Considering the fact that you study in one class, to find out all this will not make special work. Well and, of course, if there is an opportunity, learn what girls it are pleasant to it. Cases when wild hooligans dream of a silent gray mouse, and botanists from the first school desks – of cheerful, talkative and very active girl are frequent.
Keep yourself
But in all this there is one big spoon of tar. Beginning to learn about the interests of the young man, you risk to lose yourself. It is worth thinking of it first of all, and will not be exaggeration to tell that it is necessary to be afraid of it. In other words, having learned what football club he loves, you should not begin at once too to support it. Most likely, it, on the contrary, will look ridiculously, to begin to understand well something, time is necessary. It will be better if you read information on this team, on the championship in which she acts, on sport in general. Moreover, if you have some questions or you will not understand something – you can safely specify all nuances at the beloved. Believe, it will interest him much more, each person always wishes to share the knowledge, to teach someone to the fact that he knows and is able. Do not try to imitate the pleasant boy and to resemble him in everything, keep the identity, but be not afraid to broaden horizons its interests.
Do not try to imitate the pleasant boy and to resemble him in everything, keep the identity, but be not afraid to broaden horizons its interests.
This axiom concerns everything – books, movies, music. He loves some director? – Perfectly, look at its filmography, and to you will be about what to talk. Is fan of detectives? – Read Agatha Christie and share the impressions. Listens with delight to the French rap? – Listen to several performers, learn the translations of their texts, discuss with it and you will see how interest in your person will begin to arise. Be not afraid of reaction of schoolmates at all. Each of us has the right to be fond of something and to change the hobbies. As the class will react - it is already case fifth, main that it was interesting to you. And the most important – believe in yourself and the forces, if it is destiny, then it, as we know, and behind the oven will find.