It is not accepted to speak about it in society, however a problem widespread – many mothers are tired of the children. It does not mean that they do not love them. It means that at some point they undertook too much duties. And at last the bowl was overflowed.
Instruction
1. You dream that your child will be the cleverest, beautiful, dexterous and physically developed, and all are ready to make for this purpose. Techniques of the accelerated development, English about cradles, the pool and a circle of drawing. You experience progress and failures of the child as own. It is no wonder that as a result you feel exhausted, not each adult will sustain such loading. Dare to relax with the child. Walk together on the park, watch the animated film. It will be not less useful, than the next lesson of mathematics for the smallest.
2. "Mom sleeps, she was tired … Well and I did not begin to play!". In the famous poem by Elena Blagina the clear head daughter leaves all the noisy games to allow mother to have a rest. If your child already was three years old, he is quite capable to understand that you were tired and want to lie down, but then by all means will return to him. Accustom to it the kid gradually. At first leaving for five-ten minutes, each time increasing time, and the child will soon allow you to have a sleep in the afternoon.
3. Decided to make the list of affairs in which appear visit of the children's doctor, walk with a dog, preparation of a lunch to the husband and clear-out? Double-check whether you kept free time. It is no wonder that, losing rest, you feel huge fatigue.
4. Share your feelings with the husband. Agree that he will help you to cope with the child, will undertake a part of cares. For example, the spouse can take away the son from sports section after work, and you devote the released hour of time to yourself.
5. Grandmothers and the child's grandfathers can also become your irreplaceable assistants. But do not insist at all and do not reproach them that they do not want to help with grandchildren – you gave birth to the child for yourself. If you describe them as you want to have a rest, most likely, they voluntarily will take away your child on all weekend.