To be good parents – big work. Each generation differs from previous, education methods, as well as the world around, constantly change. To be modern parents, means to be able most to adapt to these changes and to teach the child to live in harmony with an environment.
Instruction
1. An essence of parental education – to grow up the child the worthy member of society. Your kid has to become independent, learn to live in society, adhering to laws and ethical standards. To give such education, parents need to be extremely sensitive to changes. Pay attention to the environment. If examples of good education of children are near – you study experience of such parents. It is useful to resort also to the expert. Psychologists of kindergartens and schools help to solve many problems and to pick up education methods.
2. One of mistakes which is made by modern parents, - education of younger generation in that spirit in which they brought up them. Some claim: "I was flogged – and I will flog the son". Think, and your child can it is worthy the best address? What did you test after physical punishments in the childhood? You study on errors of education of the parents and do not repeat them.
3. Try to be a worthy example for the children is the best way of education. "Do as the adult" - to this principle children begin to follow since childhood, it is an instinct. It is senseless to speak about harm of nicotine and alcohol, to adduce any convincing arguments if you smoke and often you drink. "Double standards" irritate children, do them inclined to deception. Get rid of addictions, do sports, read more, live with interest in all surrounding – and your child will arrive also.
4. Pass on to children the life experience. Explain to them that any act returns in one way or another. If the child behaves aggressively, will treat him with fear and mistrust, and further such behavior will result in absence of friends, the conflicts, etc.
5. Safeguard the child. Unfortunately, in the modern world of children traps danger everywhere. For this reason modern parents constantly are alarmed for younger generation. And when this alarm becomes intolerable – resort to an authoritative control method. Try not to allow such extreme.
6. Find more time for the child. The career and business are important for financial wellbeing of family, but close and trusting relationship is more significant in issues of education. Waving away from the child under the pretext of important issues, one day you will find out that he matured, and you do not know it at all. In awkward age it is fraught that your child will do a set of mistakes which could be avoided.