Not a secret – at school of children do not learn to be successful in any undertakings. They are abused for any, even for the most insignificant mistakes. Them learn not to self-express but only it is stupid to sit to listen. On changes of children learn to behave most adequately, that is not to run and not to play about but only to sit quietly near a wall. Then parents should bring up the successful child. What for this purpose needs to be made?
The first – love
The most important condition in order that the child grew up successful – to impart to it humanity, with humanity to the child true success will come. It is necessary to speak as often as possible to the child about the love and also to show it acts.
The second – ability to think
It is necessary to teach the child to think and think. Without such skills of people will hardly be able to achieve success. Here it is important to be for the child a living example for imitation. Let him see that parents think in any situation and look for solutions, and then he is begun to think and analyze too.
The third – persistence
Success usually comes not only to the most talented, but also and to the most persistent therefore it is important to cultivate persistence in the child. For this purpose perfectly creativity, especially will approach if it is the designer, plasticine or pencils with paints. It is important to help it to finish something if he is not able to make it independently.
The fourth – constant encouragement
One of the most valuable qualities of any successful person – confidence in Sebha and own forces. Practically any person will be able to finish what he initially conceived if he is sure enough of own forces. It is important to convince the child that he is able to cope with any, even very difficult, tasks. It is necessary to prove to the child that you believe in him. It is also important not to offend the children or to subject to doubts of their action. Children trust everything, especially if these words go from dear people.
The fifth – is more than optimism
Between success and optimism there is close connection. It is necessary to accustom the child to a spirit that everything will develop not just well – everything will develop perfectly. The fact that optimism has just the same force what is possessed by pessimism is remarkable. It is necessary to teach the child to find a positive in any, even the most sad situation. For example, any mistake is, first of all, an experience.
The sixth – respect
It is important not to forget to praise the child if he, of course, deserves it. It is also important to thank him for any correct acts.
The seventh – responsibility
Responsibility is one of the most important criteria for achievement of success by the child. Each person has to be otvetstven for the acts and actions, and it concerns not only adults, but also children. The child has to learn to be responsible for everything that he does.