The universal answer to a question how to bring up the kid, cannot be in principle. Each child is unique and demands individual approach. Observance of some recommendations will facilitate relationship in family and will help to grow up the person, successful in the future.
Instruction
1. That the child felt confident, the respect for it as to the personality has to be traced from the first days of life. In spite of the fact that the kid is a part of the parents, he is not obliged to correspond to someone's desires or dreams. Even the most small child deserves respect. What insignificant or ridiculous its requirements did not seem to parents, the last need to remember that the character is built up since young years. At the same time direct participation on its formation is rendered by the simplest phrases from a series "at you nothing will turn out" and "leave alone, do not disturb adults".
2. In family the general domestic surroundings have not less impact on education of children. The phrases used in use, the relation to each other of adult family members, - all this matters. The child absorbs in himself information which surrounds him. You should not be surprised to the fact that the word "goat" performed by the kid who did not reach 3 years can have at all not that value which parents expect.
3. It is the best of all to bring up a bright example. It concerns all areas of life. It is difficult to convince the child there are healthy products when on his eyes the others eat fast food. If mom says by phone that there is no dad the house when the last lies on a sofa, then a phrase that it is not good to deceive, will be for the child an empty phrase. Parents need to revise the behavior, otherwise to expect that the child will behave well, just senselessly.
4. The possibility of the choice provided by adults allows the child grow at more independent and also to feel own importance. If the kid knows that to his opinion listen, he feels like the full member of family. The child needs to be loved, otherwise no education will bring results.