Small children are inclined to trust adults and to respect them. Therefore it is not so difficult to make so that the child respected you. To gain authority of the child - means to do everything so that he understood that it is perceived seriously.
Instruction
1. The most important rule to which talented teachers learn – to think, do and tell the same always. This basic that you have to remember. Only in this case the child will begin to respect really you and to listen to your opinion. Children are very sensitive to insincerity and inconsistency. It literally brings down their world, the lie of the adult forces them to doubt everything. Adults and their opinion – the only thing reliable in the child's life. And if one adult betrays, then the confidence is undermined to all. Small children are extremists. So try to make thrifty use of their world.
2. Besides, do not try to buy sympathy of the child sweets or gifts. So you will only create consumer expectations concerning you, but not the authority. Yes, all this can be given, but only after you improve good and cordial relations. The child very sharply feels when from him just try to pay off and just begins to take from you gifts, but without love in exchange. Soul of the child responds only on love and sincerity.
3. The child – too the personality, only inexperienced. And very painfully enduring negative experience. Therefore if the kid entrusted you a secret – protect it and open for nobody. Often adults do not respect the secret of children, and they it do not forgive. Therefore treat the secretion entrusted you or accidentally discovered by you as treat a subscription about nondisclosure.
4. Never make the child silent, always listen. Perhaps, it is even inattentive, but do not let it know that to you their opinion is not important. Children very much take offense when they to them do not allow to speak. Therefore surely be with them when you are necessary to them - and they will thank you childly sincere love and trust. The child can become the true friend, despite the age.