Many mystics consider that the name of the person influences his further life and destiny, influences formation of character. But even if not to take these reasonings seriously, for the newborn it is worth approaching the choice of a name responsibly.
Instruction
1. Some people long before the birth and even planning of the child decide how will call the son or the daughter. Such parents should not reflect long, touching options: they just call the kid as long ago dreamed.
2. Some prefer to give the choice of a name on will of a case. The name can sometimes dream future mother during pregnancy or directly right after the child's birth. Others say that, having looked at the baby, they intuitively "learned" how it is necessary to call him.
3. However most of future parents prefer to approach the choice of a name for the kid more carefully. Sometimes any given option causes heated arguments and heated discussions in family. One of the easiest ways to solve this problem – to address the calendar. Now many people believers or at least treating religion act with respect this way. The Saint whose celebration is the share of birthday of the kid or several days later is named the newborn. But at all pluses of such approach, it strongly narrows a possibility of the choice of options.
4. Many prefer to call the child by the name which simply is pleasant. But in this case it is difficult to reach agreement: different people like different names. In this case it is possible to try the following method. Parents and all interested relatives make each list of the preferred names. Then relatives check lists of each other and delete names which categorically are not pleasant to them. As a result to the newborn it is named, the smallest quantity of "minuses" which is the most often found in lists and received.
5. There are people for whom it is important not only as the name, but also its value sounds. There is a set of the reference books giving "interpretation" of the most widespread names. But it is hardly worth being fond of their study seriously: in various reference books of interpretation of the same name can differ significantly from each other and if you stopped the choice on a rare name, it is rather this, just will not be in its such editions.
6. Naming the newborn, it is not enough to rely on the tastes and preferences. Once you think, the chosen name will be combined with a surname and a middle name. Besides, not superfluous will be to remember that the newborn boy himself sometime will become a father, and from his name it will also be necessary to form a middle name.
7. Calling the child, it is necessary to remember that there will pass couple of decades, and he will become an adult. And the name which is so lovely sounding when by it call the kid, can strange be perceived if to call by it the adult.
8. Some parents in a pursuit of originality seek to pick up an unusual name which does not meet more at anybody or almost at anybody. On the one hand, the originality of a name will remind the person of its uniqueness, dissimilarity on others. With another, too elaborate name can cause the child many problems, both in the childhood, and at more advanced age. It is known that many owners of elaborate names prefer to use more habitual names similar in sounding. But also you should not give too widespread names too. The person feels not too comfortably when his name is as well as most of people, him people around.