How to teach the child to good manners

How to teach the child to good manners

The task of all parents is to teach the child to good manners. And it is possible to begin training still before the child begins to speak. The kid can answer with gestures, the most important that he apprehended necessary information and learned to apply it. How their child in society will behave depends only on parents therefore such moment should pay careful attention in the course of education.

Instruction

1. It is necessary to begin with own example. The child always has to see that his mom, dad and other relatives always greet people, communicate with them politely, tell such elementary words as, for example, "thanks" and "please". Children copy behavior of both parents absolutely always therefore it is necessary to try to behave in the presence of the child correctly.

2. It is not necessary to load the child various rules of conduct at once, there will quite be enough studying three most important words: "thanks", "please" also "excuse". It is a basis of good manners. It is important to explain to the child in what situations it is necessary to use these words. If the child does not speak yet, then each word needs to be accompanied with gesture which it also will copy further and as soon as the lexicon is replenished, the gesture will be sounded.

3. You should not expect that the child at once will begin in the correct context to use these words. It will be necessary to train constantly, it has to become a habit. It is possible to play small doll performances for the kid in which heroes will tell about important correct words and to use them in the speech, as a rule, such way of training pleases all children.

4. Also the child should tell about elementary rules of conduct, for example, that it is necessary to give way in public transport to elderly people, to pass them in turn. It has to be self-evident.

5. It is necessary to encourage and praise for each correct act and correctly told polite word of the child.

6. It is possible to begin training in good manners absolutely at any age, but to retrain much more difficult the child who already began to behave incorrectly, than to train the kid anew. Therefore you should not be lazy, it is necessary to begin classes as soon as possible.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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