When the woman learns about pregnancy, mixed feelings can overcome it. And that you solved, this news needs to share with the husband. Only together you can make the final decision.
Instruction
1. If pregnancy desired by you and the husband, then it is necessary to be prepared for pleasing the spouse. If you already have a picture of ultrasonography with small "tochechka", then prepare it. It is better to report such things personally, but not by phone, and especially without sending the SMS. You need to see the first reaction of the husband to your words, to see as his eyes, or on the contrary will light up, the fright will flash.
2. Sometimes it happens that the man realizes not at once that he happened. He can ask you questions: whether precisely it how you confirmed it? Here you also need the picture with ultrasonography. But even after that reaction of the man can be ambiguous. Do not wait that he, having received news, will begin to whirl you in embraces. And its tacit consent not the certificate that he is not glad. Just men can not always adequately express the emotions. Many begin to understand that now their life will change, they try to get used to the new status and quality of life. Paternity for the man – a maturity indicator. Some men only news of pregnancy of the spouse forced to look on other at family values, to understand what serious role they play now.
3. It is more difficult if pregnancy unplanned and the spouse expressed more than once the unwillingness to have children. Such spirit can be connected with financial problems, on the man as the main getter, all cares of keeping of children lay down. If children already are, then one more child can introduce serious amendments in life family. In this case, if you dream of this child and want to keep pregnancy, you have to provide to the husband powerful arguments in favor of new life. If the husband is concerned by a financial question, tell that you, for example, will get free of charge from friends or relatives children's things, a carriage or a bed. You will be observed free of charge in district clinic and to give birth too free of charge. Tell how many money, approximately, you receive for a maternity leave at work. What privileges your family as you will be able to earn additionally at home will be able to use. Concrete figures will help the husband to present the financial future of your family.
4. It is more difficult if the spouse does not want children for the personal reasons. Let's say you have already one child and the second does not fit into his vital plans. Show imagination, tell that the second child will not interfere with his grandiose plans at all. With the kid it is possible to travel, meet perfectly friends and you will be for him the same favourite and desired.
5. Anyway place emphasis that you already love this child and he, certainly, has the right to life. Give to the husband by the own words of confidence that at him everything will turn out. The difficult periods happen in any families. But it is not an occasion to refuse such generous "gift".