Method of "carrot and stick"

Method of "carrot and stick"

The most effective method of education is the method of "carrot and stick". To school age at children the character is built already up. Parents know how to behave with the child. When it is worth scolding when and to praise. But there are some rules which can be applied to any child.

It is required to you

  • From you a little time will be required.

Instruction

1. It is impossible to compare the kid to others. As statistics shows, more successful those which were never compared to surrounding people grow.

2. Develop initiative in the child. You praise even in case you expected other result. So you move the child on new affairs and acts.

3. Teach the child to rely only on yourself in everything. Let him hope always for himself. But know when to stop. For example, if the help in the solution of a task in mathematics is required, surely prompt.

4. Teach patience. This important quality of character which is useful in further life.

5. The child has to feel love of parents. Even then, when he made some mistakes.

6. Divide big tasks into smaller. If it is impossible to execute something at once, then it is necessary to carry out it gradually. Then the quality of the done work will be high.

7. Have condescension. Even the most diligent and talented, can upset you with a bad mark. Do not abuse if you see that the child is upset, and support him.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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