Small children are capable to enjoy things which to the adult seem ordinary and not deserving attention. The butterfly, the leaf floating on water and even a lot of garbage can raise their smile. However becoming is more senior, cheerful children very often turn into serious and gloomy adults.
Sign of what is laughter without the reason
Becoming is more senior, the child with surprise notes that not everyone shares his joy of the world around. Moreover, some adults blame it. Without the reason only narrow-minded people laugh, only idlers can watch for hours the ants running on a path to an ant hill, and it is possible to spend time much more productively – to tidy up in the room or to learn the poem. Often adults kill in children desire and ability to enjoy life, growing up the next generation of busy and unsmiling persons. Joyful children usually noisy, they did not get used to constrain emotions. They laugh, jump, rush on the apartment, distract parents, seeking to share the happiness. Tired mom or dad can besiege such child: to ask that did not disturb, to shout that ceased to rustle, send to the room. The kid does not understand the true reason of discontent of parents, and in his brain the chain is built: it is bad to be happy.
Eternally hurrying
Usually at adults is much more problems, than at children. Their thoughts are occupied with nervousness before the forthcoming delivery of the important project, calculation of the family budget, reasonings where to find a side job that for everything there was enough money. Being shipped in itself, happens not easy to look on the parties and to notice things which so pleased in the childhood: the cloud reminding a hippopotamus the flowers which blossomed on a bed, the broom forgotten by the janitor on which it is possible to try to fly up. Children are much more carefree, and they have more free time. And they use it in the most productive way – enjoy life.
Not all new – well forgotten old
You live not the first year in the world and managed to see a lot of things. For the child the world around is still full of secrets. He with a smile examines a butterfly while you, perhaps, can even tell its specific name in Latin. For the kid a butterfly – something fine and surprising, for you – an object which you studied at school and the university. There's nothing to be done – the adult far cleverer also is more skilled, and a lot of things are already familiar to him.
What to do?
The fact that you the adult, does not mean that you cannot carefree enjoy life any more. If once you forgot to do it, nothing prevents you to find this ability again. For example, going along the street, force themselves to distract from own thoughts and to look round on the parties. Notice everything that is pleasant to your look: someone hung out for a window pots with the blossoming geranium, the amusing board opposite is seen. Travel more that you could see something new and surprising. Also try to communicate to children: they with pleasure will explain to you what should enjoying.