Sex with being – the phenomenon frequent. Many women after parting renew the sexual relations with once beloved. Motives at such sex can be a little. When you well understand why you want it, you feel much more confident in the choice of further actions.
Instruction
1. Probably, the most frequent reason of sex with the former young man – not cooled down love. Perhaps, you left on its initiative, but still love it. Sex in such situation the woman tries to renew the relations. Sex is often followed in this case by strong disappointment: sex happened, and the relations did not renew. If you realized that you try to return the man by means of sexual proximity, then better you should not repeat such proximity. Each time you will suffer more and more. Look for other ways renewal of relations.
2. Trust and friendship. Other reason – the remained friendly relations between you. If the gap was not very emotional, then, most likely, you kept baggage of trust to this man. You well know it, it on your internal feelings – "", "native". At the same time if you are on friendly terms, then it is much easier to resume sex, than will get acquainted with the new man. At the same time such sex on friendship can have two outcomes: renewal of relations (if both continue to love), disappointment of one of partners (if for one it is just sex without obligations, and for another – love). Therefore be honest with themselves: if you feel that at you the former love flashes, make sure of reciprocity or stop ""sex without obligations"" with this man.
3. Good sex. You just know that you your being in a bed the best, and want to experience these emotions again. Especially this motive can work if at you after parting it is impossible to construct the new relations in any way and respectively – long ago there was no sex. Or if your new men in a bed are not so good as it would be desirable. Being at the same time has still advantage before new partners because knows your features: he knows your favourite poses, erogenous zones, etc. Whereas in any new relations even the sexiest man just begins to recognize you.
4. Revenge. This reason of sex with former is possible in a situation when from the man of feeling did not cool down. At the same time you want to revenge it for any reasons. He calls you with requests to renew your relations, you agree. But after sex you leave, indifferently. If you feel in yourself such desire to sweep, well think: whether really you want to revenge by means of sex? It is difficult to keep cool at such moment. Itself can do much harm in that case much stronger, than to revenge it.
5. Accident. Accidental sex with being – too very frequent phenomenon. You just drank alcohol, got bored in the uninteresting company and hands dialed the phone number of former. You should not think and worry too strongly in such situation. Just you leave. If you feel pangs of conscience, then can discuss the happened sex with the man, place all points over and. You should not leave a situation in hover: you accurately have to understand whether there was it single accidental sex or this resumption of your relations. And your view of a situation has to correspond to opinion of the man. Otherwise the conflicts and excess experiences are inevitable.